Tuesday, November 16, 2010
Reading blog 9
Space is a very intriguing yet difficult idea. Many people have very different ideas of what space is. Space could be set by a set of rules or regulations, or set just because of personal comfort. At my church back home, space is almost non-existent. The people in my community and at my church are all very friendly, open, and welcoming type of people. At our church they really like to show their love and affection towards friends and family at the appropriate times of mass. This is shown by hugs, hand shakes, or sometimes kisses on the cheek. All due to the amount of familiarity with each other. Many people at our church feel that the less space between one another, is a good way for people to get to know each other and for the community and the bond to become stronger. I, however, sometimes feel uncomfortable when I am there. I do not like it when acquaintances and people I barely know sit close to me, or hug me when I just want a hand shake. People in the community are very tight nit and close. It is a city of near 30,000 people and are all very involved with the community, schools, and churches. So I have come to learn about many different types of people, and have gotten to know them very well. Our city defines space in other ways other than the church. They will define space by the set up of our newly remodeled downtown and the amount of room for people to walk the sidewalks or park their cars. The downtown area has a homey, close, comforting feel to it. It bring the styling of an old town with a new feel and a welcoming feeling.
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I definitely like how you applied the term 'space' here. It is easy to see how differing ideas of space can cause emotional distress in individuals, even if the ones causing it are not entirely aware of it. But then again, it is interesting to ask why we feel these differences, if we come from the same area? Is our space more personal because of the age we live in? Or is it just a luck of the draw?
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